" Cultivate" habits

A learned and experienced friend recently advised me " in order to beat the boredom you please cultivate some habits like smoking, boozing, philandering etc. Because human is a social animal. He cannot live alone. It is the duty of a man to give something in return to the society he live in. Offer some " hybrid solutions" to those who yearn for it.  Never shy away from "dilution". Your act of diluting will be seen as an act of your social contribution. In other words, your are enriching the society around you. Last but not the least, you will be surrounded by an erudite "gang". So, don't miss this chance,think wisely, and grab the opportunity that comes in your way".
Should I take it or leave it?

Next time, observe it

Eye contact is an important one when you are interacting with others. It could give a complete history about one' s character. However, there are instances where direct eye contact is avoided
INSTANCE ONE : when there is a rule, where everybody has to obey it. But, out of your greed, you have done something wrong to a deserved person. However, you,ve come up in your life because of your under-cut practice. Suppose, that deserved person appears before you later in life. You simply cannot maintain a direct eye contact because your conscience will irritate you about your past.
INSTANCE TWO: when you kiss your partner(not always your partner) passionately,  your eyes and other person eyes remain shut.
In the instance one your eyes avoid eye contact because of guilty conscious. In the latter instance, you and the other person travel to the sublime state of ectattsy. Next time you better observe it while doing the act of kissimg. The moment you start observing the other person reaction will be "aiyyae, enna nee punnindu kere". Just try it!

Learnt from a lad

Human beings are susceptible to flattery. There is no age bar.  Be it a kid or an old nanny. Everyboby falls into the trap of flattery.

There is a peanut shop near my home.  In.the absence of the shopowner(most of the time the shopowner is absent) the shop is managed by a boy of fourteen years of age. From his appearance, it seems, the boy had never been to school. Though illiterate, the boy manages the shop wonderfully.
Everyday a boy of his age from the same locality would visit his shop in the evening hours. Initially, I was not aware of the intention of his visits. But, during his stay at the shop he would shower flattery at the shop managing boy with the intention of extracting a huge cut from the daily collection
Our shop managing boy remained rock solid showing no reaction to this flattery and continued with his work nonchalantly.
By remaining focussed our progress will not get hampered. There is no use in cursing the society around you because there are only like that.....

Why so keen about it?

Recently, I had been to a fair on healing process i.e. other than conventional medicine. A particular enclosure attracted a huge crowd. That made me curious so I went to that enclosure to see what was going on? The people just qued up to know their past life experiences. The enclosure was meant for regression therapy. In that busy schedule, the cheif therapist of that enclosure said " knowing the past life experiences one could unravel the present life problems". To my mind, let bygones be bygones. "forgetting" is the "balm"ing effect provided by the supreme power. Why do we excavate the "sore past" to fester our present life. Because of past karma you've taken.this life it is you alone responsible for your actions. Never boher about the past or the future stay present and enjoy the life as much as possible, If at all.

I remain innocent. . .

How long? Do you think that this world will allow you to remain in a way you've chosen? Do you think that the process of learning is over once you've completed your academics? You may want to remain innocent.But, Remember, the world you live in is not that rosy. Your education continue by way of experiences you gain in your lifetime. Having gained experience, yet, you still want to remain innocent which means you are hoodwinking under the garb of so-called innnocence. Let others beware of you.

Heed my words

Desire is unconquered one. The more you try to conquer it the more it comes. So, what  one should do? Get yourself tangled in something. Your weakness will be capitalized by your "masters". When selfishness is the order of the day you think that your positioned will be uplifted by a stranger. What a pity. You lose you own rationale and you simply heed his "advise" . One fine day you find yourself in a gorge.

Fill up before you leave

Because of our ignorance or greedy we often Land up ourselves in a wrong place. Then, as usual, we curse ourselves. Each product is defined by its shelf life. Likewise, we too, have a shelf life. Though, we may not be aware of that. But, our "masters" are fully aware of this phenomenon. Hence, in order to give us a gracious exit from their clutches they put forward a "deal" . Before you leave get someone to your "post" you make sure that the newcomer should fulfil the criteria just like you've fulfilled. In this trade, fulfilment is the prime "corporate governance"
I think this is the most irresistible offer to forego.