What a wasteful exercise?

You cherish the dream of achieving something in your life. for which you've spent so much of your energy (both physical and monetary) and you've carried out all necessary spadeworks to envelope that "thing". Alas! that "thing" gives you a huge snub at the time of your "intended acquisition".. Now,tell me how would you feel? Never believe a secondary data because they are not always reliable. It is always better to invest your time personally and scrutinize the project in hand.