Here there is no transferability of headaches( your problems) . Externally, it may appear that had I been in your situation, I would've had a cakewalk. All these analysisis, are hypothetical in nature. Because our body and mind conditions are designed to cope with our problems alone. It is an illusion, which says that we are better capable of handling oher's problems. If at all, there is a transportability, we will revert back to our original set up. I.e. In that scenario, our newly acquired problems might just add more pressure than the existing ones.