Preaching easy practicing hard

Almost everyone of us are very good preachers . The very easiest thing in this world is offering unsolicited advices to others. But, when it comes to practicing sum of the offered ones. Our mind would say "NO no it is for others not for me " I can break the rule.

Take Dale Carnegie's case he had two divores in his life but he wrote a book "How to stop worrying and start living". Whatever he couldn't practice in his own private life he had just preached it to others. ATleast, he had translated his ideal thoughts into a courseware for billions of people.

People invest in anguishness

In order to gain sympathy and attention some people always speak negative about themselves. They talk about their ill-health, financial crisis and marital unrest. In sum cases, people have a tendency to show inerest in other's affairs as if their state of affair is clean.

By thinking and talking about negativity these people are not going to achieve great in fact, their self-esteem get dented in the long process. these people seek publicity by selling their so-called short comings to others. They do find listeners for their glibly talk.

Irresistible indeed.......

A high pedigree dog was well nourished and taken care by its master. This created a few heartburns to the mongrels of that locality.They hatched a plan to trap that high pedigree one. Everyday they came at the entrance of the house and made all types of antics.

Seeing that, the dog couldn't resist its temptations hence,it too joined them by jumping out of the wall and leaving behind the master. Initially, everything went on well sometime later, the high pedigree one unable to resist the hunger pangs,unlike its newly acquired "peers" (as they are used to it) . As it belonged to high breed category, its conscience disallowed it to enter the erswhile master's house again.As the hunger reached its feverish pitch the dog bit its own tongue, thinking that it was biting a piece of bone, to satiate its hunger.

In everyone's life we always come across the aforesaid situations some time we yield to them afterwards we curse our fate . It is always better we exercise a word of caution before we jump into that........

Timely Release

The celebrities always write their autobiographies after their retirement. In order to spice up the book sales they make some "startling revelations" so that they can hog the limelight once again. Here being honest is a secondary issue the motto: make more money even after your retirement. And make sure don't become a scapegoat by your own disclosure.

A few words of admonitions from the peers here and there . In order to rescue that personality from further complications so-called intellectuals would hail him/her as a whistleblower and then everybody will forget . Ultimately,that personality would secretly receive a fat cheque from the publisher that's all. A portion will be doled out to some "spin doctors" who had taken part in the bookpublicity campaign.

Stronger will needed

Sometime ago, I had mentiond about conviction and stronger conviction to commit and admit the wrong.
Recently, Former World No.1 Andre Agassi has confessed to drug use during his playing days in his autobiography. Humans cannot work against his conscience because the HIM inside you will always nag you and make you restless. Unfortunately, some think that their "rendez-vous" will never surface.To them "all-matters-once-buried-ever-buried" . Nobody can escape from their karma.

Why fear ?

The prime reason for fear is fear of loss and fear of pain. There are various forms of fears like biological fear, emotional fear, sociological fear etc. Lack of clarity also atribute to our fear. It is also embedded from our ancestors I mean "we are actually from animals". For a fearful person F.E.A.R. means "Forget eveything and run" Imagine your wife comes near you without a make up then you'll follow the aforesaid dictum. FORGET EVERYTHING AND RUN.

Once you've analyzed the problem (i.e.youe wife) you will redefine the fear definition F.E.A.R. fear means FALSE EMOTIONS APPEAR REAL that's all.

Actually, we lack guts in confronting/taking on fear head-on. Once that portion is solved then.....

Honey (bees) where are you?

As per recent report, honey bees will become extinct in another 30 years causing imbalance in pollination . Particularly, after the installation of celltowers there has been adrastic reduction in honey bees population. The waves from the cell towers causes distruption in the sensors of the bees. This phenomenon not just confined o bees alone. Even migratory birds lost theirway in reaching the desired destination. So, we (I) really miss you honey!!!!!!