There seems to be a debate going on why married men are easily poached by the unmarried women. To illustrate the case, let me cite an example.
Initially, it will be difficult to get a credit card from the bank because they conduct all sorts of due-diligence on the customer to check his promptness, credit worthiness and his repaying capacity. Once everything is satisfied, the bank will issue the credit card to the customer.
Later on, he will be flooded with offers from other banks with enticing schemes but these banks do not conduct any inspection or prepare any report on the customer. They simply rely on the reports conducted by the first bank..
Likewise, a married man conduct is indisputable because he is committed to his relationship hence, these unmarried women would always yearn for a relationship which is trustworthy and reliable in nature. That's why they indulge in poaching the married man. Because a married man would come handy his track record is known from his present relationship and the level of commitment he shows to his family.Moreover, these married men possess all desirable qualities (VERY OFTEN IMAGINED BY OR FANCIED BY "unmarried women")but , sadly they are married to someone else..... (not everyone will be in a position to conduct preliminary investigations because time is running out)That is fate but it can be reversed through some aggression....