Be it first to bring out the dagger.....

This is a dog-eats-dog world. There is no room for compassion. forging relationship is not meant for mutual co-existence. I just want to lead a happy life for which I am using your "services" as a means of transport that's all. Any sign of revolt from your side will not be tolerated for which the retaliation will be severe from my side. Mind it.

Why widows live longer ?

Generally, womenfolk knows the knack of nagging . In true sense, they are known as " energy reservoir". Take any survey be it celebrities or common folk. The widows will be witnessing at least 30 to 50 husband death anniversaries. Men folk cannot withstand tension forever. Once married, they usually undergo "torture session" every day(night) in and day(night) out which is something similar to the Nazis concentration camp. The moment the husbands come out of that session they still experience "hallucination" wherever they go.

In other words, their fuse wire is blown off.

"confessions" of an alcoholic

Recently I met a patient in a alcohol rehab center. We conversed different matters.Due to my approach, he started narrating his experiences.

" Life is full of expectations. The presence of conscience would not permit us do any mean work. But at the same time, we ought to satiate our desires. Right from my childhood, I remained focussed I don't mind trading anything. But I do it under the influence of alcohol.

Whatever I do in my life I expect it to be the best. Impressed by my work, My (muchchaan , later) boss started visiting my house . His visits increased drastically. Simultaneously, my work load at my workplace lo'osened."

After this statement he paused for a moment.

He continued " one day my "boss" யதார்த்தமா பார்க்க my sister பதார்த்தமா vittukodukka actually, my "boss" had condemned our family beacon. This incident had spiked my my alcohol intake .My parents vehemently opposed the relationship.

My sister stood defiant in cementing the relationship. My parents gave me an idea of dumping my sister to one of(abhishtu ) my friends .I even succeeded in finding a one nice "abhishtu" .

But, it was too late. My sister threatened us with a dire consequences. Fearing an attack on family reputation , we finally relented. Once again, this had an adverse i'mpact on my parent's health. Unable to handle the family condition, I started drinking heavily".

Its all compatibility

Two energies come together . Both are aggressive in their own perspective. The result would be catastrophic. Since they both don't leave their space for others.

In another scenario, Both are aggressive but,at the same time, they are tactful. There wouldn't be any problem as long as no winds of change takes place.

variety seekers

Every day you are asked to take same diet wouldn't you get sick? Every day you are asked to do the same work wouldn't you get boredom? If the god had been a strict disciplinarian he wouldn't have provided 7 different colors . Poor God only created 7 colors!

Look at man, one of his creations , created several ancillary colors . Now, tell me who is superior?

That's why , we Hindus coined the mantra " AHAM BRAHMASMI"

Are you getting older?

People buy newspapers not just for information. Different people have differrent tastes.If you get a sort of indescribable happiness on seeing an obituary column of a person of your age (maybe he/she is acquainted to you or not)and you thank god for prolonging your stay in this world. Then,you are getting older! So,next time turn a blind eye to the obituary columns. Start solving crosswords,jumbles and sudoku to stay younger.

Door locked, lights off!

Serving others is a paramount duty of taking births. One should always take joy in serving others. One day, anyway, this body will be consumed by the soil. Hence, one should not fret over handing over this body for the purpose of "enjoyment" of others. Instead, take pride in providing a bliss to "community" at large.

The most dreaded thing is "fear"

In life, one can have fear , but, fear cannot become one's life.

A trader had to cross a forest area to reach his village before the night falls. He was actually racing against the time. By the time he reached the periphery of the forest the darkness had enveloped that area. The area was known for "man-eaters". So, the trader prayed to god to send a fellow-traveler so that both could cross the forest without fear. The divinity answered his call now, he was joined by a middle-aged man.

In order to "beat" the fear they both conversed many topics. Again, the trader became suspicious about the fellow-traveler . He feared for his life because he was carrying precious jewels with him.

We too, behave like this trader we yearn for something. After achieving that something we develop fear over the accomplished one.

convergence of interest

To continue any communication or any relation there should be a convergence of interest. The wavelength should be same. Otherwise, the relationship will get spoil t. But, finding a suitable person with similar interests is a difficult one. So, whatever comes to our fold accept it then we'll see as the situation unfolds. Nobody really knows what the future going to be aren't we?

Tolerance pays off.....

Being rigid does not improve things in one's life. Always be accommodative to others. In other words,you should not pinpoint mistakes of others because that would alienate you further.In fact,you could take advantage of other's wrongdoings. As they would not be in a position to resist you (since you've accommodated them) .you can also indulge in shoddy work. As you increase your network one day you will become a leader of the gang.

Then, fame , name status will follow. Then,What are you waiting for? start accommodating all wrongdoers to your fold.

Lifetime= no.of.inhaling and exhaling

A lifetime is determined by the number of time one inhales and exhales. In case of disruption in the rhythm of breathing various diseases attack. Hence, one should be cautious about breathing. Slow inhaling and exhaling does wonders in prolonging the lifetime.

Erratic and faster breathing decreases the lifespan that's why animals breathing faster have lesser lifespan whereas, animals like elephants, tortoises have a larger lifespan because of the slow breathing. So,start practicing pranayaama!