How to spoil them....?

In case of women, just boost up their ego(very often false) with that frame of mind they simply destroy the tranquility at home.

In case of men, just hit their "self-esteem" . No self respecting man can tolerate humiliation in order to re-coupe the lost "esteem" he will do anything in other words, he is desperate.

In both cases, the victims are bound to more wrongs because of their disrupted mind.

This is what I want........

Please them......

Are you one of those who people wants to come out of the "SIMPLE" life?

First and foremost thing is you'll have to shed all your pedigree characteristics. For example, if you are a strict vegetarian start taking non-vegetarian food at your "admirers" place. In case,if your parents still stick to their nasty "habits" of clinging on to the old days. It is better to take non vegetarian food to your home or bring in one of your "admirer" to your home to cook non vegetarian food in fronnt of your parents.That would definitely "please-your-admirers" to include you in their "most admired list".

The main criterion in pleasing act is to relinquish all your family legacies so that " integration" process will get expedited.

If you stay back in your old cocoon what you enjoy. Only " vettha kozumbum sutta appallamam dhaan"or "thayir saadam adhukku maavadu urgaavum.

doublespeak and friendship

Power respects power. Most of our time we spend our energy in "containing" our peers. We always feel threatened by our immediate competitors. Because our slot is not permanent hence, in order to retain the current spot we indulge in sabotaging the others market.

We don't have guts to appreciate others work rather we feel envious . We often ask ourselves "how on earth is it possible for him to remain carefree in this world? when I am doing all sorts of sordid things to retain the"status quo"'. This is not just a statement this is a symptom of behavioral disorder .Sooner than later this disorder should be addressed otherwise , one would encounter all sorts of lifestyle diseases in the later part of life. Or it is high time to take a master check-up because you may have already contracted such disease.

Knock on your doctor's door...........

Leaks Leaks is so weak!

Whenever there is a leak it suggests that the entire system has some weak(ness). To stem the weak(ness) it is important to plug the leak.

My encounter with leak started when I was a 10 year old boy. That was a time I was introduced to fountain-pen writing. I still,remember that I bought Hero pen for Rs.25/- . Since I was naive in using pen I didn't use the pen "gently" . I had applied the same pressure which I used to apply it in pencil- writing . As a result, the pen nib started showing "teething trouble". But, I broke the pen in a slug fest that is a different issue altogther. Then, that pen started leaking profusely in order to "arrest" the leak I had invented my technique of cleaning the lower portion of the pen with a hard paper that had prevented the ink drops from coming out of the pen . With this invention I had succeeded in my mission to an extent.

And my encounter with leak continues......