How to spoil them....?

In case of women, just boost up their ego(very often false) with that frame of mind they simply destroy the tranquility at home.

In case of men, just hit their "self-esteem" . No self respecting man can tolerate humiliation in order to re-coupe the lost "esteem" he will do anything in other words, he is desperate.

In both cases, the victims are bound to more wrongs because of their disrupted mind.

This is what I want........