I recently saw the hindi film cheeni kum very good movie indeed the big B played his part to his potential and actress Tabu gave away equal performance to match her co-star. now, let us ponder something on cheeni kum kind of relationship in a real life.
THEORY: The girl will find more secure in the hands of an elderly person. As the relationship is not confined to carnal pleasure it is beyond that say.... platonic love. The man will be understandable, affectionate, caring and less in bickering mode. Whenever there is a difference of opinion, the elderly person will be the first person to give away his stand. The woman would see him not just as a husband but as a fatherly figure. This really plays vital because a happy marital life ensures a smooth sailing. Hold on hold on .........this prose reminds me of a kindergarten story tellying now we shall discuss what really happens in reality.
DEVIL'S ADVOCATE:The girls really wants to lead an insouciant lifestyle even after her marriage. If she finds a man of her own age he will definetly throw spanner in her lifestyle no body can tolerate her arrogancy . In order to overcome this impasse, Girls normally choose an elderly person as her partner. Because he would remain "a cool customer" because he neither has the energy to "engage" her properly nor would he be in a position to change partner at this age all he expects at this age is a "secured"????companion . If at all he confronts her the woman in relation would harp on his "under performance". So it is better to turn a blind eye instead of rocking one's marriage .
To put it simply, younger woman marrying an elderly man is like availing national roaming international roaming facility without any additional deposit.Both incoming and outgoing calls free that too, one can migrate to other networks without disconnecting the "host" network services.
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