Sunday, March 1, 2009

A gap of 30 years





The film "meendum kokila" was made in 1980. The tradition goes like this from the boy side the family makes a visit to see the girl's family . While on a visit, the enquire about family background, status and they also conduct some tests to find out whether they see any convergence between two families. They even ask girl to sing (because by remaining silent one may not know whether the girl is a dumb or not this is done to dispel that doubt ) and they even ask the girl to dance( this is done with a view to test whether the girl is a physically challenged or not).

By comparing the two foot ages above one could see the sea change in arranged marriage concept. The girls have transformed themselves.

IT IS A EVER CHANGING WORLD THERE IS ONE THING WHICH CANNOT BE CHANGED THAT IS CHANGE.

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