what vidhur niti says....

A member may be sacrificed for the sake of a family; A family may be sacrificed for the sake of a village; A village may be sacrificed for the sake of a kingdom; A whole world may be sacrificed for the sake of an individual'soul.

Look at the time when these rules were set there were no 24/7 channels . These great men never ran after media to project themselves. More than half the world were leading a barbaric lifestyle they didn't even cross the threshold of the civilization. This land, bharat, led form the front in all spheres of the mankind.

Learn from your "insurance agent"

Just follow their mannerism before taking a policy from them and observe the same after a policy is taken. Normally, we prefer to avoid them because of their pestering nature. Of late, we "encounter" smart people who are focussed, enterprising and of course, chic.

They are just prepared to travel "an extra mile" to clinch the deal. Once the deal is closed

they just turn off the focus and behave almost like a stranger.

This is life. We admire flowers as long as they give fragrance . Nobody likes wilted one. Just push off to greener pastures.

Why less interaction?

Human beings have less interaction these days. Probably, they don't want to share their (so-called) success formula with others.Or is it because they don't want to let their secrets out . If they interact with others their secrets will be out.And there "sordid tactics" will get exposed.

Anyway, less interaction is a welcome step as it mitigates the problem of gossip .

sibling rivalry

As a small child we always take pride in "using" the name of our big brother. When it is used in the friend's circle an invisible fear sets in among friends. He is seen as your Saviour . No matter what the magnitude of the situation he is there to help you out. Hold on that was your childhood!

After 20-25 years , invoking the very same big brother name your blood boils because a deewar is erected between you and your brother.And the problem is compounded or rather complexed by the support extended by your parent(s).

Now, he is seen as a threat or you are seen as an impediment in his life. That's why our perception changes with the passage of time

Exhibit whatever you have

Life is short. Desires are unlimited. Obviously, there will be a mismatch. What to do? Sit calm and analyze your pluses and minuses. Almighty creations do not go waste each and every object has its mission. Hence, discover your "strategic assets/depths" . Flaunt it to our target audience amass huge assets

A word of caution, as always these strategic assets/depths will not be in a pink state. Just like what would an oil major do for an oil rig which is exhausted? THEY JUST ABANDON AND CAP THE RIG. Same thing would happen to you . As long as market exists for you ----make money.

Trust deficit everywhere....

I am not going to discuss about trust deficit between India and Pakistan. This is felt almost in every relationship. The root cause of trust deficit is greediness . I want to show that I am superior to you I 'm here to dominate you . You've no other choice but to put up with this situation. When trust deficit arises both parties jump into a rat race . And the rat race goes on and on..........

you cheat or get cheated

To acquire anything (be it property, relationship or anything else) you have only two options. Either you cheat or be prepared to get cheated by others. The initial part is okay as we always make surveillance for our victims . The later part i.e. be prepared to get cheated ....... Suppose you are pushed to the wall you've no options but to accept what is offered to you. Here, you are prepared to get cheated by others.

Cheating others is not a cakewalk . As one has to collect lots of information about the "possible" victims. One has to rely on secondary data provided by our appointed "agents". Nobody can vouch the credibility of the agents . With the collected data, if we approach the victim(s), there is every possibility that we become victims of our own conspiracy.

That's why I always maintain that the art of cheating should be present in our DNA otherwise, don't try.