You are being invited to a multi cuisine contest . In which your spouse participates. You love to taste your neighbhour 's preparations. But, you'll not show it off because of your self-esteem. You 'll "dip" your "finger" slyly in other's preparation and taste it. Your intention is to enjoy and not being caught by others as well. Like wise, your spouse does the same activity which you did a little while ago, but only thing that you've noticed her or in other words, she is caught red-handed. Will you reprimand her? or punish her for her "indecent" act? or just behave as if nothing happened?
Hey! apply this aforesaid allegory in real life extra marital affairs and analyze the consequences.